We are all the same when we start, but if we are not careful our environment and circumstances can alter who we become. You must make a choice early in life on who you want to be and make the commitment to be that person, because it’s likely no one will just give it to you. This will take more work than you can see at the time, but I promise that you will do things you never thought possible and develop into your best self if you commit. Trust in the process.